NOW I'm home!

Well, it's Monday night and I did the last 500 miles today- almost 10 hours of driving. The trip to Atlanta was a total of 2050 miles- round trip. Needless to say, I don't want to drive ANYWHERE tomorrow- except maybe to the reflexology place in Selden. But, that's it.

I have a ton of things to catch up on. But, as soon as I can I'm going to start working on my book proposal. Wish me luck!

Still not home

Well, it's Sunday night and I made it as far north as Virginia. I'm taking I-81 and had to stop in Gate City, VA to visit my Grandfather's grave. I also wanted to have a short visit with my cousin Judy, who I met a few months ago. Hanging out with her and her husband made me feel a little better. They have a yard filled with goats, so the fun never ends.

I LOVE driving through Scott County. I don't know what it is exactly- the mountains, hills, streams, etc.... but the old houses and barns REALLY get to me. It's like the past and present together in a beautiful backdrop. I just wanted to walk around and take pictures- but then I would never get home.

Tomorrow I have about 500 miles to drive. I'm looking forward to being home, again. I have so much to do. Thanks to Michelle and my Dad for watching Michael. It's weird to travel without him. Every time I see a McDonalds I want to yell "Look Michael!". It is nice though to have about 20% of the bags and boxes from the big trip. I can see out the back!

Well, if you are still reading this blog- thanks. I don't think my trip is ever going to end :)

Back on the Road

Well, I'm back on the road, heading down to Atlanta for my friend Cathy's memorial service. She was a good friend from college. Here are some pictures from her wedding that I took back in 2001. Cathy had cervical cancer that spread throughout her body. I'll write more when I can- thanks..... Christine

We're Home!!!! (September 1st)

At approximately 9:30pm on Monday, September 1st, Michael and I arrived home in Middle Island NY after about 9 hours of driving.

More info to come

Day 70-- Labor Day in Jamestown, NY

This day we actually headed back to the west to visit my friend from college, Rich. We met in TV production classes and share a goofy sense of humor. I hadn’t seen Rich since 1993, when he visited me in Va Beach. Rich and his wife and their three kids live near Chattaqua lake in the Jamestown area.

The ride there was pretty easy and took about 3 hours. I thought it was going to be flat, like Buffalo. But, it was hilly, but not hard to drive- perfect combination. We got to Rich’s house around 3pm. They were having a BBQ. Michael played with the little kids while I joined in on a game of whiffle ball. I then pulled out my camera and got some shots.

Then Rich drove Michael and I around the area. I was pretty impressed. It’s a nice area. If the winters weren’t so harsh, I could see living there. Well, I could say that about a lot of places - LOL.

At sunset, Rich and his mom joined us at this Labor Day festival. We watched this incredible fireworks display. At first Michael wanted to go into the car, but then he was ok with it- thank goodness. It’s so much fun doing things like the Balloon Festival and Labor Day Festival with friends. We don’t do too much of that stuff on Long Island.

I’m glad we came upstate. I almost drove home the other day. Tomorrow, Monday is our last day of driving. I hope to get home Monday night. School starts on Wednesday. I’m going to sleep for a day or two before I get back to the real world. I can’t believe the trip is almost over. But, I’m ready to go home. But, I do want to take another trip soon- it might be a short one. But, I really do enjoy being on the road. I’m glad Michael does too.

(pictures to come)

Day 69-- Balloon Festival- Upstate NY

We got up late and hung out until about 2pm and then took off for the Balloon Festival in Dansville, NY. It was Ken, Donna, Me and Michael and the three kids. We drove through the Finger Lakes area which includes many vinyards. It’s a beautiful area (especially in the summer). Small towns, historical buildings, docks, boats and even Amish and/or Mennonites. You see horse drawn wagons all the time. Many of these people are farmers and a lot of the surrounding land is used for farming.

Anyway, the festival was so much fun. I wasn’t expecting that. I thought we were just watching balloons go up. They had a kid’s play section with those slides that blow up. We got the unlimited ride bracelet (of course) and the kids played for HOURS. Michael got a little upset when a kid cut him in line, but for the most part, the kids were great.

The balloons looked beautiful across the sky. The weather was perfect.

Day 68 & 68B-- Sesame Place in PA

Well, Michael and I FINALLY got to Sesame Place today. I lasted about 4 hours. We went back to my cousin's and I actually fell asleep. I feel like a 4 year old- LOL. But, I think mentally I've taken about all I can. We have 2 more stops and I almost jumped into the car today and drove back to Middle Island. But, we are going to finish! I only have to get through the next few days.

Tomorrow we head to upstate New York to my x-roommate Donna and her family. I lived with her for 6 months when I was pregnant, so it's like going home in a way. I'm actually looking forward to getting back into the car. Can you believe that? I think Michael is fine with it too. I don't think he ever said seriously "let's go home". Pretty amazing! Any typical kid probably would have asked 100 times. Autism does have its advantages.

I kind messed up with the days--Wednesday was Michael's Birthday, Thurs. was Sesame Place and Friday we left for upstate. Here is the post for Friday:

Michael and I left the Iversons in PA around 1pm. It rained on and off the whole trip, but thankfully it never got bad. We drove north through Scranton and into New York State. We haven’t seen NYS since June 21st- so it’s been a long time. I have to admit I was happy to cross the border into my home state. There was a welcome center before Binghampton, which I never knew existed. But, it was one of the better ones (of course-lol).

The ride from Binghampton to Donna’s house was very pretty. Right when we got off the Interstate onto the back road I thought I saw a pair of eagles. I couldn’t believe it. I lived in NYS for about 30 years and NEVER saw an eagle. The past two months I’ve seen about 20 of them. So, after about 30 minutes of being in NYS, we see an eagle. Well, I do consider eagles and herons my lucky birds- so it was fitting.

We drove through Ithaca and saw all the college students around Cornell University. I always love driving through Ithaca. Last year I took the same route and got a little lost, but the GPS was perfect this time. When I went to college in Cortland about 20 years ago, we used to visit Ithaca once in a while- so it almost feels like home to me.

I noticed there is a huge difference in my comfort level when I’m driving in a familiar place. I guess that makes sense. But, once I hit the Scranton area- I felt good.

We got to Donna’s house around 8pm. Donna made me the BEST sauce. It had squash and zucchini in it. I don’t even like squash and zucchini, but this tasted sooooo good. I have to really give Donna some props. We hung out and talked until about 1am (as usual). I lived with Donna for about 6 months when I was pregnant. She was also one of my roommates in college. Donna and her husband Ken have 3 kids around Michael’s age. He was excited to be there too.

(pictures to come)

Day 67-- HAPPY 9th BIRTHDAY MICHAEL

Well, today wasn't what I expected. Another surprise, but this one not so good. Michael started with a fever last night and right now (it's 3pm) he's laying on the couch, watching the weather channel. I don't think we're going to make it to Sesame Place at all. I don't even know if we'll be able to finish the rest of the trip. We might just go home in a day or two (when he's feeling better). I'm not sure. I'll just have to wait and see how he feels. He's eating and drinking- so that is good. A few minutes ago he said his body hurt all over. He starts school in exactly 1 week- so he needs to be in shape for that. He didn't cry when I told him we weren't meeting our friends at Sesame Place. THAT was a nice surprise.

When he's sick I try not to give him any meds and let his body heal itself. So, it's a lot of wait and see. I try to have him drink as much as possible and take a lukewarm bath if he starts getting bad. If it reaches 104*, then I give him something. My cousin also gave me the phone number to the walk-in clinic, but I hope we won't have to use it. Wish us luck!

Day 66-- Back in PA

Well, we left WV around noon. Michael and I stopped in a small town called Washington, PA for lunch. I had fun chatting with the mother and daughter team working there. The best part was the "New York style pizza". I haven't had that in a while. Getting closer.... getting closer....

It took us about 4-5 hours to drive across PA. Pretty hilly, not too exciting. I did see a couple of hot air balloons. As we headed east, I saw more New York State license plates too.

We got to my cousins in Langhorne around 8pm. It was so nice to be back. We were here the first week of our trip. Tonight I told stories of the trip and then we watched Hillary Clinton at the convention. Michael passed out on the couch- which is a total surprise because the kid has been going to be bed around midnight lately.

Tomorrow is Michael's 9th birthday and we're going to Sesame Place with our friends from Long Island- Kerrie, Paul and Paul. "Little Paul" used to be in Michael's classroom. We've haven't seen them in over 2 months. Kerrie's really been there for me during the trip- emailing, texting and calling. She's pretty much the person I checked in with most days. Tomorrow should be fun and I know Michael is excited.

Day 65-- Triadelphia, WV

This morning Michael woke up to say goodbye to Scott and the kids. It was reported to me that Jordan, age 4, said "goodbye Michael. I love you" -which is probably one of the most sweetest things I've ever heard. I wish I actually heard it, but I was sleeping. LOL. I think it was a great experience for Michael to be around kids his age. The whole trip we've been hanging out with some really cool kids- typical and on the spectrum. I'm really happy that Michael has been able to have those exchanges.

We packed up, had a quick lunch with Scott and headed on the road. Oh wait- couldn't find the cord to the GPS and Blackberry phone. So, we ran into Target to buy one. Then Michael wanted a new Backyardigans DVD. I also picked up an Ohio State t-shirt for him while we were there. I think we got onto the highway around 4:30pm.

The landscape went from flat farmland to hills and then mountains. We crossed into Wheeling, WV- which was very pretty at that time of day. Again, couldn't get a picture while I was driving- but it was nice. We stopped in a town called Triadelphia. It actually took me a few hours to figure out where we were- LOL.

The sunset from the hotel was beautiful. (pictures to come) We tried to go swimming, but the pool was too cold. It was the first time Michael ever said no to swimming, so the pool must have been REALLY cold.

If you look at a map, we are in a small stretch of West Virginia between Ohio and PA. Come to think of it, WV might be the official last "new state" for Michael. I thought it was ND, but I think it may be WV. I think I was in WV years ago when driving from Niagara Falls to Virginia Beach.

Michael and I are now fighting over the remote control. He wants to watch the weather channel and I want to watch the Democratic Convention.

We're feeling closer to home, I guess because we are. But, part of me is looking forward to not packing and unpacking every few days. The driving part wasn't bad. It's more the stress of keeping us safe and trying not to lose something at every stop. I feel great now that we learned not to stay at the cheapest hotel. It's been a good plan lately.

I talked to my cousin Annette tonight and found out her sister Josephine's dog passed away last month- and I missed it. I called Jo and left a message (her dog was like her baby). But, it got me thinking about Kirby. Kirby's my loyal cat for the last 16 years. He went missing the day we left on the trip. My roommate has not seen him. Some of the neighbors saw him the first couple of weeks- but no word in over a month. He's got a tag and a phone number, but no call.

I don't know if I'll ever see him again. I honestly think he knew we were leaving. It will be interesting to see if he returns when we return. I'll keep you all posted.

Well, tomorrow we'll be in Langhorne, PA again. It was one of the first stops on the trip. Then we head upstate to visit with my x-roommate from college, Donna, and her family. I'm looking forward to the end of our trip, but sad to see it almost over.

Day 64-- Columbus Zoo

I'll write more tomorrow, but we went to the Columbus Zoo today. It was like 93* and we got caught in a storm (Michael freaked out). But, other than that we had fun and saw some really cool animals.

Leaving for PA tomorrow :(


See more pictures from Ohio here

Day 63-- McDonalds

Saturday all I got accomplished was going with Scott and the kids to McDonalds for dinner. They all had fun playing in the play area. We just had to get out of the house. Most of the day I spent in bed. Michael kept coming into my room saying "i hope you feel better". He even made me a get well card. Honestly, I don't ever remember him caring that much. That made it almost worth it. Well, almost.

Day 62-- Friday

Today Michael and I hung out and then we went out for an early dinner at Dave and Busters. Afterwards we went to Target and got Michael some school supplies. Columbus, OH is an interesting area. I never thought much of OH before. But, there is really a lot going on here- between Ohio State and the growing suburbs. It reminds me a lot of Long Island- pretty flat and all. But, of course people are friendlier here. TN still takes the award for friendliest place though.

Anyway, Michael didn't get to bed until after 2am. It was my fault. My friend decided to make some "mixed drinks" and it was just too hot out to say no. I'll write more about it tomorrow. I'm still recovering!

Day 61-- A Hot Day in Ohio

Today it was 91* in Ohio, 70's on Long Island. But, now that I've been to Phoenix, I can't complain about heat in the North East anymore. Michael and I took it easy today. We ran some errands, made dinner and hung out and watched some Olympics.

Then Scott pulled out the Wii and we competed in bowling. It was a lot of fun. My friend Cathy talks about how she gets her exercise from the Wii and after tonight, I can see how. I can also see how you can get addicted to these games. I just wanted to try them all. But, of course at midnight we threw in the towel. I'm falling asleep while writing this-LOL. Sweet dreams everyone.

Day 60-- Waterpark

Ok. Now when I use the term "waterpark" you are probably thinking of Splish Splash or Water Country USA. This "waterpark" was more like a park with water fountains. But, it was really cool. Michael and the kids really loved it. They ran around splashing each other. There was also this HUGE waterfall. I got some really great pictures and even pulled out the videocamera for this one. Of course it will take me 44 years to edit and upload. But, I got some video.

Michael fell asleep at midnight tonight. OMG- what a horrible schedule we are on. I guess he still thinks we are in CA. I hope he gets back on track for school. Less than 2 weeks ago- holy cow. This is the fastest summer in history for me. I guess when you keep busy and all of that.

Again, Michael is talking up a storm. I'm also saying things to him and he totally understands. Like I said to him something like this today, "take the power cord from the DVD player and plug it in. Get out your dvd and put it in the other player. Before you do that, make sure the power is on on the new player. Also make sure the TV is on video mode. Then use the remote to press play". He follows everything I say. It's amazing. I only have to say it once. I almost feel like there is nothing he doesn't understand. OK- if we talked about algebra... wait- that's not a good example, because the reality is he probably understands algebra better than me. If we talked about the difference between a vegan and a vegetarian he might not understand THAT. But, anyway, he's doing great.

A couple of times today he got mad when he had to share his markers, which I thought was weird. One time he stormed upstairs. I guess he's just been using them all the time for 2 months, so it's hard to share. He was ok after that. The whole episodes lasted about 2 minutes each. It wasn't a big deal. But, I wanted to mention it. It's not all great and perfect, we have some trying times on the trip. But, if I had to use one word to describe Michael- AMAZING. For an 8 year old boy with autism to drive for 60 days with his mother around the US. And that mother is ME (LOL). I wonder if he is sick of me. I'm almost sick of me. I'm tired of my driving, I know that. Thankfully when we stay with certain people THEY drive- which is nice. And Michael just loves spending so much time with other kids.


Thanks again for reading our blog and for your love and support. We feel it from across the miles.

Day 59-- Reunion

My friend Scott, who we are staying with, joined Michael and I for lunch. We first go to Howard's house, again just 10 minutes away. I didn't get to meet his wife and two girls- but I hope to before we leave on Sunday. The four of us head over to Ruby Tuesdays.

Michael sat great and ate his usual meal while Howard and I caught up on almost 40 years. OMG. I feel so old just writing that. The earliest memory I have of Howard is when he was 4 and I was 5. It's weird because sometimes you see someone from your past and they don't remember anything good. We were able to talk about the good stuff and some not so good stuff. But, it was all fun. He was an important person in my early years and I was REALLY happy to see him doing so well. He just seemed right on track in Ohio, which is about 700 or so miles away from Rocky Point. I guess I'm really proud of him and I was glad that we were all able to get together.

After lunch, we picked up Scott's daughter from daycare and make a quick stop at Whole Foods- god I love that store. Michael hasn't had an Enjoy Life cookie in weeks! He was SO happy.

Then we get the 2 boys and headed "home". We made dinner and hung out. Michael watched the boys play Wii. It was great for Michael to play with some kids his age and great for me to talk to someone without a communication disorder. LOL. After 3 days on the road, I was ready for a conversation that didn't involve "pretend friends". It's also nice to stay in one place for more than a day. The rest of the trip is going to be filled with visiting friends and family- so it's smooth sailing from here.

I didn't take any pictures today.

Day 58-- Ohio (Monday)

After three days of driving a total of 1000 miles, Michael and I arrived in Columbus, Ohio. We are staying with friends who have three kids- Michael is thrilled. They are 4, 6 & 8 and the middle boy was diagnosed with autism a few years back. But, he's not anymore. This is the third recovered kid we are staying with. I'm telling ya, I saw video of this child before and there is NO way anyone would EVER guess he had autism at one time. Amazing.

Anyway, something very interesting happened this day. I was packing up at the hotel and thought about who I knew in Ohio. Well, I remembered that my best friend as a child, Howard, lived here. He was my next store neighbor in Rocky Point and the closest thing I ever had to a brother. We didn't hang out much in high school after he got WAY too cool for me.

I looked him up on anywho.com and found his address and phone number. Not only does he still live in Ohio, he lives in the SAME town as where I am staying-- 2.7 miles away to be exact. Seems like fate huh? I called him up and spoke to his wife. We set up a lunch get together tomorrow! Very excited and hope he's doing well.

Didn't take any pictures of Indiana. It was pretty boring and just farm after farm of corn. That's it.

Day 57-- to Indiana

Well, today we drove from Eau Claire, Wisc to Merrillville, Indiana. The highlight was we stopped at Michael's cousin's house in Woodstock, IL. We got to visit with Chad, Gretchen, Ray, Kevin and Brady.

Then Michael and I visited Chowpatty- a vegetarian restaurant outside of Chicago. I've been there 2 or 3 times before and I really like it. They even had waffle french fries- which Michael never had before- but liked! (thank god). Michael asked for a t-shirt. So the back of his shirt says "I think... therefore I'm a vegetarian". Which I think is great, of course. He also had to put the shirt on during dinner. Good thing he couldn't order any chicken. LOL.



On to Ohio for a few days!

Day 56-- Wisconsin

Well, the plan was to leave Park Rapids around 10-11am. After eating lunch (great salad Joanne) and looking at pictures, I think we left around 1:30pm. The trip was kinda boring. Except for the emergency bathroom stop- not much happened. When we got near St. Paul, MN it started to rain, so we stopped at Red Robin for dinner.

Then we got as far as Eau Claire, Wisconsin. The sunset was so beautiful. I didn't get a picture, but just imagine the sky being all blue and pink. We found a decent hotel in this "city". I was going to drive further, but was afraid of not finding a hotel for miles- just like in Montana. Also, there is this BIG resort area called Wisconsin Dells. I know that the prices for rooms are REALLY high there. So, we stopped about 30-40 miles into the state.

Now I'm glad we stopped when we did, because as I sit on my bed working on the blog the rain is POURING down. There is NO way I would have wanted to drive in this, or even carry my luggage to the building. So- we got a tv (watching Olympics), a fridge, a micro, a bathroom, comfortable beds and wireless--- life is good.

The only thing is I forgot to color my hair tonight. Michael said "do it in the morning". I thought for a second and said, "good idea". Now why didn't I think of that? LOL.

Day 55-- Last full day in MN

We're enjoying our time with family in Minnesota. Michael is very at home- playing on the computer, hanging out outside... We were here 3 or 4 years ago and it's amazing the difference. Back then we had to worry about Michael getting hurt or falling into the lake. This visit went a lot quicker too. Even Michael's Grandpa Bob said the same thing.

Today we took a trip over to Wal-Mart in Park Rapids. It's a new store and really met all of our needs. We got our oil changed and wiper blades replaced. I got a hair cut. I got new pads on my glasses. And we picked up some gifts. I also went across the street and filled up on gas and got a car wash. The dead bugs were STILL on the front of my car afterwards.

I've been eating veggie lasagna for days. I figured out the trick is to heat it to the perfect temperature and put together some garlic bread. It totally hits the spot. The lasagna has gotten better each day. But, sadly I made a little too much.

Grandpa Bob made Michael some grilled chicken that he's been eating for days. It was nice to stay in such a cute cabin, right on the lake and just "hang" for a few days. Joanne, Bob's wife, is so great to talk to. It was a really nice very for everyone all around.